Anonymous
i have been speaking and been going on dates with this one guy for about 4-5 months now, recently he asked me to be his girlfriend and i said yes! he has introduced me to some of his friends and his family, has me as his wallpaper on his phone and has even announced to his coworkers he officially has a gf. it feels great and we have so much in common and i think the world of him. but i have this nagging gut feeling he is seeing someone else, that there's something going on behind my back. I have no reason to, we've both been thru each other's phones and i haven't seen anything that will make me doubt him but i can't shake this feeling. I've been hurt in the past, and I chalk this up to having an anxious attachment style. But idk what to do or what to say, think or feel. We only see each other once every two weeks, and its a 50 min drive to each other, I think this distance doesn't help. I'm sick of feeling like this, like something bad is around the corner and i didn't prepare enough