my boyfriend who doent rlly counmt as a boyfriend cheats on me but tells me and i just let it happen because i have no self respect and want to feel loved!!! also my parnets have restricted my whole life because for fuck knows like i lied to them twice big deal sorry like at;east i admitted the lie my mums telling ,me i need to focus on work yet took my phone so i cant even update y wprk availibility of check my emails or messages and all the things i need to even keep my job so thats just great alli have is my shitbox laptoip whoich barley does anyting so yay me

Had a really frustrating old client today. He’s known for being difficult, and even though we’ve explained the process multiple times, it’s the same argument every time he comes back. It honestly feels like he just wants to argue for the sake of it. You can tell he doesn’t like how things are run, but since we’re the ones handling it, he has no choice but to comply. One of my coworkers finally gave up, and I ended up having to explain everything again. I am under the weather today, and I’ll admit I lost my patience too. We got into an argument. I mean ARGUMENT. Both got frustrated, and so he went back to my coworker, and I stepped outside just to breathe. Working in government is tough. You really want to help, but some people are just impossible to please. Even when you try your best, they still think you’re not helping. I know I could’ve handled it more gracefully, but today was just one of those days. And now I still can’t seem to rest even if I want to.

I love my partner, and I know they love me too. But loving someone doesn’t automatically make the relationship healthy. Sometimes their behavior feels toxic. They can be rude or dismissive, and when that happens, what hurts most is that my feelings come second to theirs. Instead of reflecting on how they affect me, they focus on justifying their actions. We disagree on many personal things—how I dress, how I do my makeup, and who I spend time with, especially friends of the opposite gender. These things matter to me. I don’t want to give up what makes me happy just to keep them comfortable. When I stand my ground, they see it as disrespect, even though it’s simply me choosing myself. I understand feeling uncomfortable, but that doesn’t give them the right to control me or be angry at me for living my life. This is my body, my choices, and my headspace. Ive been upset any cryiung alot lately and they dont seem to care. its become a "norm" for me to cry. They js got used to it ig.

I feel like I don't fit anywhere. Is this a joke?!

i cant find a reason good enough to leave my relationship. its not awful just not brill. and i really think they could do better too. ideas?

My life sucks and i don't have any reason to live

What do you do when your friend finds a dud