im 26 soon to be 27 ive had 4 kids and am 231lbs but really dont look like it. my doctor wants me to lose 10lbs my the second week of april. says to cut out carbs, sugars and over processed foods. really wants me on a mostly animal diet with some fruits/veggies (but says a carnivore diet in hard?) my favorite food WAS pasta and for the most part ive cut it out. basically all i have been eating is burger and eggs but only as my evening meal. ive always struggled with self confidence ut am trying so hard to work on it but i feel like i have the most unsupportive partner ever. they dont ever care about anything i say and when i ask for any kind of opinion they just say "whatever you want to do" "whatever you think will work" "if thats what you want to try" one time i wanted to try something and they literally laughed in my fucking face (so very encouraging right?) i try so hard and get reactions like that then they tell me the most unattractive thing about me is my lack of self confidence