Hey there, i hope everything is going great with you and im sorry if this matter will be a bit long Anyway im a newly married woman from a conservative country and i haven't had an intercourse with my husband, im going to visit him soon as we are in distance and i was talking with my friends about this, they asked me did i prepare myself for the whole thing and i said i did prepare but in my way as i don't wax and never liked it i did it once and it was painful as hell i only shave, so they forced me to do pikini wax (i am okay with waxing my body but my private part is a red zone to me i would never let anyone get close to it except for my husband) so i was looked at by friends as i am saying something awful and that it's a rule and for you to feel feminine and for him too, i feel feminine in my own skin and my husband doesn't mind me just shaving So i feel really judged they kept talking about my topic for more than half an hour Am i overreacting