It bugs me so much when people judge my lifestyle choices e.g. not having a big wedding or even getting married, not having kids, not looking to settle with the one but rather just live life as it comes until it stops and follow my heart. I actually find the huge focus on getting married, the wedding industry, having kids, the conveyor belt of expectation if you will, to be deeply bizarre, sometimes disturbing and often reducing people to traditional harmful gender roles but I obviously don't say so because I don't like to shit on things that make other people happy. I'm happy, so I don't see why the urge to shit on my choices is so rife amongst family, some friends etc. I'm chilling, what's the problem? Why am I to be pitied if I don't spend over a grand on a white dress I'll wear once