Rant #1910

my mind is kinda jumbled at the moment but there is a lot that i want to say. my boyfriend of almost 5 years, called me abusive, just because i told him to make sure he didnt forget anything in the car after i picked him up from work since i was tired and didnt want to go back out to get it for him. i acted sad and i basically ignored him and now all the sudden he thinks i need to give him an apology? for what? he said i belittled him and insulted him? how? i didnt say anything that even would come off close to being any of the things he said i did. SO now since i wont apologize he took his 3 days off and is now going into work and 2 of those days are 16 hour shifts which im pretty sure is so he doesnt have to be around me. this is so out of character for him its so weird its like im dating someone i dont even know anymore. he said he will keep working everyday til i apologize to him and then he will start to act like he loves me again like what??? i wanted to marry him but idk now..