I fought my whole life to be a lesbian, it's a core part of who I am. It has been since childhood. Even after coming out as nonbinary, I will always see myself as a lesbian I am engaged to this amazing woman. She makes me happier than I thought I could be. She's trans too, which is great to have someone to relate to The "problem" I have is that she doesn't present feminine, she's very clearly amab. I've had family members tell me they're happy I found the "right man" and friends call me a faker Everywhere we go now, when people see me, they think I'm in a straight relationships. I feel evil for venting about this. It shouldn't matter what anyone else says or does, to me she's the most beautiful woman on earth. I just wish she was more feminine