I can't stand how it's normal for adults to be so emotionally unregulated they think it's a sign of trust to unilaterally burden other people with their deepest insecurities and expect the other person to be an on-demand source of reassurance. It feels almost inevitable I become someone's therapist in a relationship or an object of obsession. I don't want to be chased or held up on a pedestal. I don't want to fill the void in someone's life because I will never, ever be enough to fix it- it has to be resolved by that person themselves.