I thought my BF of nearly 3 years and I were gonna move in together in his state of schooling after he graduated in May and I’ve been sending him rentals and apartments. He just dropped on me today he’s staying for another 1/2 years and renting with his friends. I feel so hurt and blindsided. I’m not against him doing this. I’m hurt to feel completely forgotten about in the planning and be an after thought in his life when we’ve already been long distance this whole time. Why never discuss this or tell me you were thinking about this? And to tell me it’s because life is hard? Mine is hard too. I’ve been on my own since I was 20 renting with friends. I want to be with YOU. We could’ve gotten a place and had your friends move in with us. Now there’s no place for me and I’m stuck here waiting for him until he feels ready. If you weren’t ready, why didn’t you talk to me and lead me on for months thinking this was gonna happen?