one of my only family members is dying. my wife responded to this by saying she needs to be on her phone alone so she isnt upset about it. i am coping with this alone and not for the first time. she keeps lying to me and every time something bad happens in my life i have to manage her needs. it's starting to drive me insane i already have lost a lot of people - family cut me off for being gay as it is - and the only person who i chose to care about keeps blanking me or straight up lying to me about things such as "quitting smoking" or "applying for jobs" (she is chronically unemployed). i was sold a life where id be loved and now i am managing someone else forever even in my most difficult and stressful moments. i dont know what to do