Why do I get attached so fast? Every time I talk to someone new I develop kinda like feeling for them in a matter of days. At first I thought it was just how I was starting things and looked at the conversation as a whole. But even when I try to get a friend and keep them as I friend I get attached and wish for something more. 2 months ago I met this wonderful guy who made me feel recognized and loved. He talked so charming and lovingly so I felt confident that after 3 weeks he would surely love me, he told me to grow up because thing don't happen that fast? He said we were just friends and didn't stop talking to me. Some days it goes hours before I get a simple response of 6 words when I anwser in matter if seconds. The other day we talked with no breaks for 3 hours straight and it felt wonderful. But the day after it went back to the usual. I love him still and I hate it.