im 26 soon to be 27 ive had 4 kids and am 231lbs but really dont look like it. my doctor wants me to lose 10lbs my the second week of april. says to cut out carbs, sugars and over processed foods. really wants me on a mostly animal diet with some fruits/veggies (but says a carnivore diet in hard?) my favorite food WAS pasta and for the most part ive cut it out. basically all i have been eating is burger and eggs but only as my evening meal. ive always struggled with self confidence ut am trying so hard to work on it but i feel like i have the most unsupportive partner ever. they dont ever care about anything i say and when i ask for any kind of opinion they just say "whatever you want to do" "whatever you think will work" "if thats what you want to try" one time i wanted to try something and they literally laughed in my fucking face (so very encouraging right?) i try so hard and get reactions like that then they tell me the most unattractive thing about me is my lack of self confidence

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I hate my eyes. I hate the so so much. Recently I had made an off comment about how someone looked to similar to my friend minus a couple key points. That person is know feeling really bad about themselves and now im fucking guilty asf but cant apologize as ill be busy. My observations with my eyes always makes things worse. My mum says she dislikes seeing my eyes as they are rllly dark. Idk what to do. I love seeing colors and nature and scenery and stuff, but everywhere around me ppl hate me for looking or existing with my eyes

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I'm an 41 years old Indian woman and wanted a loving provider man. But, he is fighting, getting violent for monetary contribution. He never acts on my requests even if it is non-monetary except food. But gets very angry and violent if I don't obey him. He wants baby with me and wants to buy house with my name in mortgage too. I cannot argue or ask him for anything because of his behavior. What should I do when leaving is not an option? How can I correct greedy angry man?

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My wife let me know recently that her dad paid off the mortgage on his recently paid house. Sounds great, but he wants to keep this info from his girlfriend who lives with him. Apparently she pays him $500 a month to live there too. Sounds pretty deceitful to me. I asked my wife why he is keeping this from her, but she said she doesn't want to talk about it and wishes she didn't tell me. This situation doesn't involve me, but I've seen him act similarly about money matters in the past. My wife doesn't seem to think anything is wrong with it. I think she's just giving her dad a pass.

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I'm tired of living—I don't know why, but I'm fed up. Every day feels like Groundhog Day, and another big—and maybe silly—reason is my mom's overprotectiveness. Imagine this: I’m 18, but my mom still checks my phone, reads my messages without permission—and not only that, but she can leave a group chat without my consent, or delete any app or social media account from my phone without a second thought. God forbid you block her somewhere— She constantly texts and calls me when I’m at school or at home—that is, when she’s at work and I’m somewhere else, even at some event. It doesn’t matter to her; she says she’s worried about me, but I think it’s too much. Plus, she calls right away or video calls; if I don’t pick up within five or ten minutes, she starts calling my friends. Oh, right, I almost forgot—I don’t have any friends, just one girlfriend. she knows all my passwords, from my phone’s lock screen to the codes for my banking apps—actually, that’s just the tip of the iceberg.

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I love the colour blue but I'm afraid I doesn't suit me and it makes me sad

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I HATE RE SO MUCH MY TEACHER SUCKS SHE CANT SHUT UP OMG IS SHE EVEN QUALIFIED TO TEACH?? HOW DOES THIS WOMEN HAVE CHILDREN IF I WERE HER CHILD I WOULD HAVE MOVED OUT LONG BEFORE 18 BROOOO

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Is it ok that Adam Hills the Australian Comedian on his show The Last Leg, think America and "Israel" is being the nice guys by attacking Iran killing innocent civilians, and America illegally invading Venezuela and wanting to take over Greenland by force for the minerals and oil nothing to do with security?

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Is it ok that Adam Hills the Australian Comedian on his show The Last Leg, think American and "Israel" is being the nice guys by attacking Iran killing innocent civilians, and American invading Venezuela, wanting to take over Greenland by force etc etc etc?

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I'm not typa person that like to rant on social media but imagine on your birthday , people you loves ignoring your own request , unexpected surprise that nobody ask for , I am not a fan of "surprise" lepastu bila cakap , I never want this , diorang cakap tak bersyukur, they say I am being brat and ungrateful when I never ASKED FOR IT AT THE FIRST PLACE , i was doing a.i certificate for the sake of person I owe kindness and somehow it decided to make a portrait of me using generative a.i which I was so against it since I am also an artist , and a dude i refused to talk to and avoid send me a money that I never request , now I have a beef with my mom because I was frustrated and accidentally being rude and she was mad at me for cutting meatball in a wrong way , I was hungry as hell before iftar and when you hungry , your emotion can't be regulate that easily ,I hate celebrating birthday at home , I rather not to celebrate it at all, kenapa hari ni jugak semua benda berlaku 😩😩🎂

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So today I found out that a very close friend of mine is having a party, and i did not get an invite. some of my friends were talking about what they were gonna get her and i saw a gc called “____’s bday party”. i logically assumed that i would probably be invited, but was not in the gc because i didnt have the app they were messaging on. mind you i have known her for a long long time, and nothing has happened between us recently. anyway, she didn’t have a party last year, so when i asked her if she was having one she was like nooo unfortunately not. i then told her that i had heard and saw she is, but it was okay if i wasnt invited. she hasn’t responded since. i have no idea what to do i feel really hurt especially since i thought we were close and she has even invited people who are “new” to our friendgroup.

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I'm so frustrated. I'm currently undergoing my second miscarriage. I JUST WANT KIDS :(

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I wish i got out before they took the life out of me. I used to have drive and ambition. I used to be so smart. It's never been great but i just wish i got away before everything got so much worse. I can't think. I have no drive. I'm a failure. I'm more uncertain of anything than ever before. I thought it wasn't that bad but i older i get the more of myself i lose. I just wish i would redo it all so bad. I would have been something incredible. I feel any of the light i had burnt out and died. I'm so young but I feel so old, so tired, so full of regret and ache. I feel like I robbed myself of any chance I had of being happy. Maybe this would have always happened.

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i dont understand how my bf says he "enjoys" playing video games when he constantly yells when he plays them. but speaking of games hes constantly on them. we have three kids and he does nothing around the house unless he is asked (sometimes) but he shouldnt have to be asked. i work from 4a to 1p and when i get home nothing around the house is done and i am expected to still be in a happy go lucky mood. its bullshit. then when i finally snap because going to work and taking care of the house and kids and listening to him yell at the game all the time becomes overwhelming all i do is bitch and complain. i am exhausted in every way you possibly think of. i have absolutely no time for myself and tbh even if i did i wouldnt know what id do because im always doing stuff around the house.

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My girlfriend and I broke up after almost four years. We had been growing apart, and I had tried bringing it up several times over the past year, but nothing changed. A few weeks ago she said it felt like we were already separated and decided she wanted to break up. She also said part of the reason was me not pulling my weight around the house, which is fair. What’s hard is that I had been trying to work on the drifting apart for months, but it didn’t seem like she wanted to put in the effort then. Now we still live together because neither of us can afford to move, we work at the same place, and I’m still her ride since her car doesn’t work. She wants to stay friends, and I do too, but it’s difficult because I still see her as more than a friend. It also hurts that she seems to treat her other friends as more important than our relationship.

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I want to talk to someone that is willing to listen to me

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I lowk hate everyone cuz why am I being treated like a damn brick. Everywhere I go im being ignored and for what? School IGNORED, home IGNORED, shouted and disrespected by my mum then IN the same breath she says 'communication is key' and 'why are you always upstairs in your room'. Like are we being deadass rn?? And the cheery on top is she works in a mental health ward? ANDD im sick and tired of being the damn floater friend. No not even friend, person, everywhere I go! Is it being im quiet? Well maybe its because im always being flipping ignored. Is it because I talk to much? Omg get me out of hereee js choose one broo. And worst of all is when I feel ignored in a room full of people. How does that genuinely make sense??? Overall im tired of being treated and having to feel the physical pain of being ignored. 😃🔫

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Wtf bro. Get me out of here immediately

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I've been witnessing severe arguments between my mom nd my dad due to my dad cheating, ever since me and my older sister were little. I faced a lot of fucking trauma, especially the fact that I am also an honor student. It was such a draining daily routine to cope with the shouting while studying. Honestly, I've never said any of this to anyone even to my sibling. Just 2 hours ago, I woke up (12:30am) cus my parents were having an argument about my dad accusing my mom of cheating. My mom left and haven't replied to me. It's really making me worry and bothering me since I really really love my mom, I am scared something happened to her. She haven't replied to me for an hour now and I have exams later on today. Yk the feeling that you just wanna fucking explode from all of the things that have been inside for a whole decade??? Tbh, it really is obvious that idk how to rant properly since it is also my first time talking about this.

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I have homicidal thoughts, I’ve done some soul searching on them and research and it turns out they’re sexually motivated and cannibalistic which is like, dahmer level shit. I think I might also be a necrophile bc I had this weird experience when my grandma died, I got to see/touch her body a day before the funeral and I was fascinated by the feeling of her dead hands and face, it felt like leather and left some sort of oily residue in my hand and she was as stiff as a board. I would do anything to feel that again the closest I’ve came to recreating it was putting my hand in ice water and scraping my palm with my teeth which is also where the cannibalistic side came in bc I’d draw blood sometimes. Anyway I’m at school rn (I’m 17) and the homicidal thoughts are flaring up really bad like I have to grip the pocket knife in my pocket super hard to look normal I’m jittery and twitchy I keep tripping over shit and dropping stuff idk what to do I think I’m going be a serial killer

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