Anonymous
so many problems. problems after problems after problems. for every peak there is a valley, but I feel like we've been in a long valley for miles long. I can feel the white rabbit coming, I can feel him creeping up on me... we've been dating for 6 weeks and the fights we've had makes it feel like we've been together for YEARS. Yes, we both have faults in our relationship and things we both have to fix but I'm not one to choose to keep living in the past and bring up issues in the past that we've had because we've BOTH expressed how we didn't want it brought up. I thought that was going to be respected, especially due to the fact that HE brought it up, to NOT bring it up, yet he's the one who continues to bring it up.. At that point, I don't know what to do. He's asking me things about the past, I'm asking "why are we bringing the past up when we both agreed not to?" but the issue just "has to be talked about". it's getting hard on my mental again and I'm really trying hard to not crash