I have never hated someone as much as I detest my partner's ex. I'm having to deal with homicidal feelings and urges I have never experienced before. She was with him for 15 years and then left without any leadup convo leaving her engagement ring in his locker at work, just btw I'm leaving you and all her stuff was gone, starting dating a new guy a few months later. It sounds like they both struggled with communication and the relationship floundered for years before it's eventual end. I do know that he did truly love her. This is the first relationship I've had where I've been truly loved. She tells everyone she was in an abusive relationship (she wasn't) just for clout and says she didn't know love until she met her new partner. Her ex did clearly love her. She took him for granted like the sort of love he gives is just basic when it's not. She lies to make herself look good. I want that fucking woman dead. She acts like she's been through bad junk when she hasn't been through shit.