i'm so fucking tired. my partner and i are both disabled but he's Less Able to Do Things so even though he INSISTS he's not the more disabled of us 2, i'm the one doing everything. it feels like a slap in the face bcs i either take his word for it (we're equally disabled yet for some reason he wont fucking help me?) or assume he's lying (he doesn't help bcs he can't) and both are hurtful!! i am TOO DISABLED to do all the dishes and clean the flat myself and help him bathe and clean up after him when he leaves clothes on the floor etc. and makes "piles of doom" i have to clean up later and do the laundry and clean up after him when he pees the bed. I KNOW its not his fault, none of it is, but i cant DO ANYTHING anymore all of my waking moments i have TOO MUCH TO DO and im so fatigued i can't take it anymore. to top it off? he begged to get a cat for months. now i have to do + near everything for the cat's care (and pay the spenny stuff) and he's found out HE DOESN'T LIKE HAVING A CAT