My gf really wants to come here and I want it to so bad bur my situation is just complicated I’m a black women raised by black parents and they love to follow culture and make sure its stays that way we’re all Christian’s my dad a pastor and my parents love going to church more than anything’s us dating if they find out I’m just dead bur I just been so stressed lately idk I see it as a ultimatum that if I don’t find a way for her to come her then we’re done bur I know she doesn’t mean it that way it just hard rught now