I was so exited in playing badminton for the weekend. Even trained at home looking forward to play with my former workmate(a guy) with his badminton group. Suddenly, when I confirmed with him, my wife doesnt agree anymore but even before comfirming, I asked her if it was okay. She positively agree. But on the last minute, she told me that she isnt comfortable because there was girls on the group. I ask her to come watch so she can be more confident that it was just a game. In the end, I was really disappointed. I WAS LOOKING FORWARD TO THAT GAME. She even told me that I cant join any if she isnt joining. What really hard was, she doesnt have any sports but im actively participating in any. I just lost my appetite on the relationship itself. I dont know what to do now.