there's this guy that has like me for about 7-8 years and he confessed last year. We started going out and stuff bout it wasn't that serious. He said he liked me, but his actions proved otherwise I tell him about my day, he would just one up me and say that he has a worse day than me. Or if I tell him about my weekend, he will drag me down and said at least i could go out and chill. He was just so negative and had to bring me down. Even though he's in poly and I'm in ite,we learn pretty much the same stuff. But he's indirectly saying that ite is for dumb people and he's smarter than me because he went to poly.I don't know what to do at this point but I'm trying to cut contact with him cuz he's really aggressive,negative,manipulative and a lot of other red flags that shows but I was too blind to see. People around me pointed it out but I don't know why I was defending his name. I feel like if u genuinely like someone, would you even say stuff like this to them? any advice?