I dont know if I want to cry or not rn. I'm sad because the person i really like said they see a pattern thats bothering them and theyve seen it in people in the past that have hurt them, but its nothing I did wrong, and they'd like to take a break from the romantic aspect in our relationship to feel things out and see whats making things feel off. I respect their decision entirely and I'm not going to do anything to hurt them. we left off on a fine note, I'll let them re-engage the conversation when they feel ready. I'm curious what the pattern is that they're noticing, because I want to try and understand what they're feeling too. I'm not sure if I should cry or go to bed, its like I can cry if I want to and I dont know what to do about that.