i didn’t want to text my best friend, i wanted to talk to her in person, but our other friend insisted that me and her texted my best friend instead of just talking to her in person. my best friend, we’ll call her L, she’s been acting a bit off recently. she said she’d wanted to be more social this year, but it feels like she’s dimming herself. she isn’t as energetic around me, but is with other people. it’s okay to have other friends, but i felt shut out. same with my other friend, we’ll call her P. So me and P text L, telling her all the things she’d done to hurt us, but we didn’t say any of it in a rude way. we said we were worried about her. L got really defensive and started turning things back on us, and we kept saying that we were just worried. L eventually stopped being so defensive, and said that she was overwhelmed. we said we didn’t mean to overwhelm her, we were just worried. i’m scared to go to school tomorrow. i’m scared she hates me. i don’t want to lose my best friend.