I'm 16. my mom and dad were planning a child 2 years ago i already have a younger sister and shes currently 9 my mom has known since 5+ years that i never wanted another sibling again... the fanily where i come from the priority given to the younger sibling is hideous as the older child you get forgotten about. 2 years ago when i found out my mom and dad were planning a child i never told them that i knew, i kept it bottled up and cried every night. our family really prioritises boys i was and still am scared that if my mom and dad conceive a boy ever then my life will become hell, ill loose all my freedom and all my happiness... 2 years later now my mom is pregnant i found her ultra sound photos i confronted her and she lied that it wasnt planned. i know that its planned because she talked about this with my grandma and my cousin overheard them and told me everything. I've started crying every day again.. i cant help but not cry. if im not occupied i get reminded of it.