ever since i was a baby both my mom and dad have been a heavy drinkers and my dad was very abusive to me and my mom and my dad used to scream, threaten to kill my mother, put his hands on both me and my mom and i uselly got put in the middle of the fights to stop them but just one night he lost control. He started to strangle and put his hands around my mothers neck and as a 13 year old walking in and seeing ur mother purple for the first time tramatizes you in a way you cant imagine. He got off my mom and my mom ran to go get her phone to call the cops but my father got to her phone first and he grabbed a hammer, went outside and started smashing her phone she was screaming and crying and telling him to stop but he wouldnt no matter what so i went and grabbed my phone and called the cops and the cops came and arrested him and he got kicked out of the house. he has been out of the house ever since that night but the gov was thinking about letting him back in. Does anyone relate?