caught my husband watching gay porn. this is his wife writing this. his entire search is gay porn. i have asked him to stop and we almost got divorced over it. i thought he did when things started to get better. it's 3 years later and i found it on his phone again. we're talking about having children. is he gay? should i get divorced now or potentially 10 years down the line when we do have kids and he decides he doesn't want to be with me anymore?