I’ve recently became a single mother to a 6 month old son, we live with my family and right now, I’m dealing with court proceedings over custody and parenting time with the father of my child. He’s a narcissist and abusive with his surroundings and refuses to acknowledge it. I’m struggling to find a job, struggling with postpartum. In the midst of all this, I’m also talking to a guy, I’ve been referring to him as Häger, like Jäger the drink, but we started talking June 10 on tinder (is it weird I remember the day I started talking to him) he’s 28, 6”1, 170-185 pounds, work blue collar, has an 8 year old daughter named Skyla. But the way he makes me feel, it’s unlike anything I’ve ever felt. And this ain’t live this is pure lust between the both of us, but I can’t lie I’m really starting to like this guy and I’m not sure if I’m even remotely in a position to even be fucking Häger.