In your twisted mind you think marriage is just about sex, sharing finances, and the other half taking care of the house for you. You’re only nice when you want sex. Otherwise you couldn’t care less about my well being. And of course you want control of finances. You hate that I make more than you but you don’t hesitate to enjoy that financial benefit. You don’t want others to control or nag you but yet you are controlling and nag endlessly. You’re so oblivious to the things you do and what you say and how it impacts those around you which is typically negative. Words just spew out of your mouth without going through your brain for any thought and you forget the words you say after they leave your mouth. And you deny what you did and what you said. You belittle others emotions. All you care about is how we make you look. You present this good father and husband figure but you are barely that. I hope I will never meet you in my next life.