why is it so hard for people to understand they are not special. unique maybe, but special? extremely rare. its not a bad thing. there are 8 billion+ of us so its more like a natural thing. i say, why try so hard to be special, when you can just be yourself. sure people will have their opinions of you and thats okay. you have opinions of others too. its more likely that people want to fit in or be seen a certain way. everything has a spectrum. in the end we are all the same thing. two wings of the same bird.