they always invalidate my feelings. Always saying, "be glad your dad didnt hit you becasuse!--", all because I get upset. All because we got into an argument, it's their natural response to anything. All because I didn't get physically disciplined. And what if I did? What I genuinely did? Would they say some dumb shit like "Well, I had it harder than you because--" i dont want to be compared to you anymore. Stop comparing my feelings to your trauma, it's fucking pathetic. Go get a life.