My mom keeps saying I'm gaining weight and being passive aggressive when I choose a less healthy option of whatever we were gonna eat/drink. when I was in elementary school she told me I was gonna end up 30 fat and alone and if I ate at her house shed call my dad to tell him I already ate so she could make sure I wasn't aloud a second meal. she used to not let me ration my own food and limited me to one plate, she tells me I need to work out she denies all of this and denies that I could have any mental health issue and if she somehow notices I'm self conscious she'll say something along the lines of "at least you see the problem" snd such, I told her I have ADHD and she says she wont medicate me and that if the only thing god made me stugglr with was a "focusing problem" them I'm lucky. on my dads side I'm not aloud to be myself. they are very hispanic and hate every form of alternative style they'd always call me white as an insult and make fun of my accent while speaking Spanish.