My ex-situationship now has a girlfriend. He posts her on his Instagram, goes on dates with her, goes out with her, and does TikTok trends with her — things I know he always wished to do with someone. Frankly, I was hurt and still am. I thought that maybe he would somehow come back someday, but he didn't. I always hoped. But perhaps him having a girlfriend is a sign from the universe that he has healed and is ready to love someone again. This is deeper than jealousy—whatever it is, it hurts. However, even though I'm hurting, I pray that she treats him gently, shows him that love can be calm and peaceful, that it doesn't require battling against problems every day, that love doesn't require being exhausted. To her: Please take care of him. His favorite colors are black, white, and gray. He likes techy stuff. Learn the games he plays: COD, Roblox, etc. Your reposts matter to him so much, don't make him overthink. Ruffle his hair jokingky then fix it then kiss it, he likes it. lovehim