Look it’s gets to a certain point that you have to be the mean one. I don’t really care if I’m the mean one. My niece, 17yrs old, who for the last 2 weeks hasn’t been showering, brushing her teeth or any personal care and has bad BO. I stopped yelling at her 2 weeks ago. No sense of cleanliness, No chores done, no school assignments done, staying up late playing game, late for classes and sleeps in class. Like I give up there’s something wrong with the kids these days. You’re gonna be an adult in less than a year the government waiting for that door to smack you on the way out. You either get your shit together or you’re not gonna make it in the real world your childhood ends. I’m your uncle I’m not gonna be around for ever I’m 35 if I’m luck I get another 20 at most. Your mom’s older than me by a few years. What you gonna do if her time is up and you don’t know what to do with your life? now’s the time to get your shit together and figure out which path you are going to take.