I’m so upset. My partner has his birthday today and I decided to make sure our daughter was fully cared for without his help so he can relax, I picked out his clothes for work, then drove our dog to his appointment(which my partner was supposed to do) I did it to help relieve stress. I was home all day and deep cleaned our garage, laundry room, did all the laundry, deep cleaned the kitchen, dining room, living room, all three bed rooms plus our 3rd olds and then our office and bathroom. My daughter got home first than he came home with his 5 friends and around 4 hours later when they all left he walked inside and got mad that he could have done it better. Since it’s been a few hours my daughter had toys around. But he blamed me and said he would have done better. I obviously got upset cause I spent all day cleaning and it just a few toys but now he’s telling me why am I getting angry with him when it’s his birthday. (Also I had a big dinner ready) so am I over reacting for this ?:(