My 16f sister didn’t audition for a thing in school that my dad explicitly told her to do because she “didnt want to” and now he’s getting mad at everyone. He blew up at my mom for something her friends said and apparently hes also mad at me (18f) because i didn’t join a certain one-credit chamber ensemble class at uni when i didn’t even know he wanted me to join and he only knows the vaguest mutterings abt this class bc of a piano teacher. I’ve always done everything he’s asked me to do (auditioned for xyz, applied for xyz) because i knew he would get mega pissed off if i didn’t and now i’m worried that tomorrow morning he’s going to start yelling at me and i won’t even be allowed to say anything in return. I’ve literally done so much of what he’s asked me to but its the things that i DONT do that make him say i’ve wasted his money, wasted his time, wasted LIFE or something and right now i’m stressed out because my sister didn’t do the thing and it’s ruined the entire rest of the week