i love my bf so much, but i need a break. i just feel like im not able to reach my full potential when im with him and thats not because hes not supportive or he holds me back, im just not a relationship person. i also might be leaving the city for college soon and i really dont wanna do long distance with him because im gonna regret it and i also dont have enough trust in myself. but i could also never breakup with him beasue hes always talkig about our future together and i mean like marriage, kids, growing old, traveling and it just upsets me because i also know i cant marry him because hes not the guy i had in mind. and my mom wont let me marry him or anyone if theyre not in our culture and i agree with that completley. also recently, he just hasnt been like a real man. like hes too chalant and lovey dovey i just wanna argue so much so that we have a reason to break up. like it sounds awful but i need a way out soon but id ont know how or what that is?. any advice? should i stay?