I finally read the note left to me a week ago. I'll respond here. "Where are u getting ur info from?? Cause women dont fear humiliation but oh men dont fear being killed?? It literally makes no sense. The more u try and put genders into an unideal box the more it makes absolutely no sense, especially such a broad statement like this b/c there is SO many men and women out there that you cant simply say something like that and it to be true. It may be true in some situations but I feel like ur in some kind of vacuum mindset. Dont put urself in a box or anyone else, ppl are WAY too diverse and complex to simply put them somewhere with labels. I hope you can heal and work ur insecurities out b/c what u are feeling IS normal and MANY ppl (both males and females) have worked out their issues. <3" I can't argue with that. Its social media I get this info from. I don't agree with it. I just know others do and sometimes I feel ashamed of my way of thinking but tbh it's not their business