You can really learn A LOT about how bad your partner truly is after having surgery with a long recovery process. This is the worst he's ever treated me so far and I'm extremely disappointed and rethinking everything. If he had surgery and needed to recover, best believe I wouldn't be pressuring him for sex, making constant demands of him, and getting angry and throwing temper tantrums because he's still in too much pain to have sex. I would be very caring of him, giving him space if he needs, cuddling and holding his hand, and doing chores and cooking meals for him til he felt better. Making his recovery as easy and stress free as possible.