I'm not homophobic. I want to make that clear before I get started, because this weighs heavily on my soul. I had this boyfriend. We're going to call him Ant. When I first met Ant, we were in a group of about 7 other people so it was hard to form a really close-knit relationship with just him. Eventually we were alone and we bonded and long story short, we got together. We dated for about 4 months. That doesn't seem long, but I talked to that guy practically 24/7. And he made my whole life change in just 4 months. He was so positive and taught me about self-worth and seeing the good in things, which my suicidal self needed the most. Things happened... and he had to break up with me for my safety. He promised we'd meet again one day. Recently, after two years apart, he updated on one of his pages, and he said how he had 'transitioned'. My whole world shattered. He dropped hints during our relationship, but still... I'm straight. He's a... woman. Did he... abandon me?