this is exactly why i don't wanna vent >gf (who i still love a lot) gets online after sleeping right after i come back from school > i greet her after waiting more than 15ish hours > she greets me back > we talk for 10 minutes before she goes to join an event on a game which involves her vc'ing with other people > i wait even longer > i get a bit upset for waiting that long just for her to go away > she comes back after 2 hours > she notices im dry and asks if im upset > i say yes and explain why >she then starts defending herself talking about how its an event with required vc and shit and how she's doing this because she's so excited to finally participate in a game that she likes (that i don't as much) and makes it about her own problems "oh but did you ever thought of how i felt when you joined our friends while i was offline and you were waiting for me?" ?? > i go on mute with my voice cracking > after 10 minutes she apologizes this is why i don't wanna vent