I got broken up with 5 mo ths ago and I'm still dealing with the after math. So what caused the breakup was intimacy which is weird since I didn't think that could happen before this, anyway. So what happened was *,his words* " we got too freaky" and basically he was a Christian and basically broke down into all this spiritual gargin and stuff. It even went as far as him telling his friends and his friends dad was there and he said " she's the devil! She's straying you away from God!" I don't know if I'm valid for still caring 5 months later but I do. I just hurt so bad when it happened and had no one to go to about it. What was worse is the whole time I wanted to help him but I knew I never could cause I've never determined with this kinda thing before and I also felt like I used him a little and was totally in the wrong. I do t know if I'll ever get over this. I loved him, and still do. I just feel so bad for pushing for something he couldn't give me. I felt like I forced him.