To whoever said "this could have been more personal and real as a private note" on my post about my friend, I couldn't find any of their posts for shit. I wish I could have made it private. I'm concerned about my friend and I wanted to make them a message. Did I really think in the moment about it? No. Do I regret it? A little. But did it provide me even a sliver of comfort thinking I just maybe helped? Yes. So unless you are my friend, then respectfully, mind your own buisness.