Ending on good terms is the worst possible scenario. Do something to make me hate you. I can't understand why it hurts so much more. This guy asked me out first, I denied and said we should wait to make sure. We waited a year and still felt strongly. 3 months. 3 months of dating and he suddenly has commitment issues, doesn't like the distance.. I was very loud about being a forever person. I don't date casually. I can't be mad at him because he was honest, and said sorry so many times for hurting me but please do something so I can stop feeling so bad. I miss him. I love him so much and he just wants to be friends. I don't think I can go on without him in my life so I have no choice but to be friends. "Right person, wrong time, wrong place." He said. I've only ever had 2 real boyfriends, I don't date a lot, mingle a lot. I am aromatic so unless it happens on its own I do not search for it. Why does every time I date end the same way. 3 months of bliss and it's gone.