My twin sister called me r3t@rted for a simple mistake. I added the trash can over small bits of trash and when my sister pointed it out she called me r3t@rted. I told her that she shouldn't say that, she told me it's 'just a word'. She's the same woman who says (I can't type the word in because I'm not black, it's the n-word), We're Arab......arab people can't say that word. I'm scared that if she finds out about gay/trans slurs, she'd use them and play the 'it's just a word' card, like NO???? those words hurt people because it's SLURS against them, the least you can do is NOT say them.