Rant #19274

whenever i talk about an experience i had you take it as an attack somehow when it had nothing to do with you. you get defensive that i experienced pain at all and have to "one-up" me, snapping at me how bad you had it. i'd rather you just not care at all than make everything about yourself. i'd rather you just ignore me than getting mad at me for not being nothing but your jester 24/7.