My girlfriend is worried because her mother doesnt have a car, their power is getting shut off in two days and its 900$ which they dont have and i want to help but i dont have that kind of money rn and im so worried shes going to do something to herself even tho she promised she wouldnt. shes struggled with mental health a lot before, and im just worried. to make matters worse, she drops this on my deceased mothers birthday, and i know thats not her fault but i was feeling extremely depressed before and now its worse. i dont know what to do. i want to help but im not in the place to do so. idk. Im tired of it but i cant lose her or leave her.