My bf and I are in the same class, so we have many chances to talk during lunch, breaks, changeovers, substitutions and dispersal. Lately I feel like he barely makes an effort to talk to me while spending a lot of that free time talking "enthusiastically" with other girls especially one particular girl. And its not about him talking to her its about how he is spending his attention and time to someone who isnt me. At first I was fine with it but it became so frequent that even my friends noticed it. Im not saying he likes her or that she likes him. My problem is that I feel neglected (yes ik i am pathetic). He once asked me to talk less to one of his friends because it bothered him and I respected that and also try very hard to not make him feel sad. He has also admitted that he doesnt contribute enough to our relationship and said he would try harder but I havent felt that effort. He doesnt put effort or his efforts are so low that i dont even see the difference between then and now.