There’s a person I feel and attraction towards but i honestly don’t know if they feel the same (They’re genderqueer and pansexual, im unlabeled and my attraction fluctuates). They’ve been in multiple (honestly unhealthy) relationships in past years and I’ve been in one abusive relationship (I wasn’t attracted to the guy, I’m a people pleaser and others thought we would look cute together and he REALLY liked me, yadayadayada). I was always super jealous of their partners because they would talk to me all the time about their issues and I just wanted to flick their partner away and hold them and let them talk to me. It’s not my place to talk abt what their partners did, but it wasn’t good and they’d tell me everything. We flirted, fake kissed, and held hands and cuddled to the point where our parents and peers were asking repeatedly if we were dating, and I wanted so badly to tell them yes. I’ve recently moved away and now I feel like I have to sit and deal with these feelings from afar