im absolutely fucked i am im so fucking miserable i cant cope my wife is depressed and unable to function as a human being i do everything i work so hard and she just cries and complains about how we have nothing when she doesn't work or contribute to finances. she meets none of my emotional needs if i ever express a feeling it becomes about how sad it makes her. she lies to me constantly literally ALL THE TIME about smoking self harming disordered eating GOING OFF HER DEPRESSION MEDS WITHOUT TELLING ANYONE and then she has the utter fucking nerve to tell me i hate her and mistreat her for asking her to try a little bit even if it just means getting out of bed every day we'll go step by step together its suffocating its impossible im scared to exist in my own home i hate it so much it feels like no one acknowledges im a person too