Family and Love I love my family. They can be annoying, but they are all fantastic people. I love celebrating with them every big event. My bf and my anniversary is happening 2 days after my mom’s birthday and we have never spent it together. This year we tried to make it happen but he never reached out with a plan. My family told me “we should go somewhere for our birthdays (there are 3 birthdays we are celebrating and they are all important 18,50,70). I said: hey let’s go to Cancun! I’ve never been and wanted to go. They arranged everything so we could all go for free, but then my bf got mad because he wanted me to go to his tiny town he is doing an internship in. This means I had to pick between my family’s money and stress free vacation, and my bf’s shitty town vacation where I ended up paying for gas, hotel and gift… and on top of that I had to keep telling him :”it’s okay baby I don’t mind”. Truth is I don’t care as much but it sucks