my boyfriend makes me so sick i’m so tired of this horrid relationship. He swears to me that he’s always here for me and that i can always vent to him but it’s straight bullshit. Every single time i vent it’s the same response “oh”, “sorgy”, or he just makes himself the victim. I have been trying to fix our communication for years and i have typed out huge paragraphs talking about my feelings and his response was literally just making everything i said be my fault. I was worried he was being dry? “your just sensitive” and all shit like that. Earlier today i vented about my mom and instead of comforting me or literally anything but making it about himself he said “well mr mom has been calling me *gay slur* lately”. oh I’m so sick of this man. He has been so dry lately and swears it’s because he isn’t a good texter but before a few days ago we were completely fine. He wasn’t dry. i just want to be seen and not overshadowed.