I have a partner (lover, they are genderfluid). I am too scared to openly say I'm dating someone, even to my therapist. What do I say? What do I speak? How do I start the conversation? it sounds pathetic to just say "oh hi ! I'm dating an online person ! don't worry! they're not 50!" like.. ok. I know, that was probably doing too much, but my partner and I have been dating for a week, (before this, we had very good chemistry and a lot of playful flirting, that ended up me confessing to them).. Do I just say to my therapist that I know their face, age, and body? How do I make it sound less odd??????? i feel so confused. It's going to be a few hours, and I don't know if I should just say anything oh my fucking god. at this point, I don't even know anymore. am I good enough for my partner?. I feel like I keep doubting myself, because of how fucking fat I am. I feel tired of trying, but I'm trying my best for my lover, because I don't want them to be left in the dark...