I've already known this but looking at my family members behavior they fit the narcissist category. I already knew but when you hear someone talk about it and the behaviors some immediately match theirs. I can't change them. Their treatment you try to talk to them about it theyll get angry blow you off and act like you're the problem. So. I don't like them acting like that. Especially when they're drunk or in the phase of it they'll trash the entire family then not remember next time they wake up. Sure I'm not perfect myself but they always start the shit when I just want to be left alone and don't bother anyone. Idk. You can't get anything by someone who knows your behavior like a book. I do theirs. Maybe it's why it's so frustrating.